Retirement has long been associated with leisure, relaxation, and winding down from a long career. But as more individuals confront the emotional realities of this life transition, many find that the absence of structure, socialization, and identity once provided by work can create a gap that traditional retirement planning doesn't fully address.
In this guest post, Kathleen Rehl, a "ReFired" financial advisor and educator in legacy planning, shares a framework to help advisors guide clients through this transition using a more expansive "ReFirement" lens. Drawing from her own encore career and decades of client experience, Kathleen illustrates how retirement can be reframed not as an end, but as a beginning – one centered on fulfillment, self-exploration, and purpose. While the core elements of traditional retirement planning remain (e.g., income streams, cash flow, and lifestyle support), ReFirement builds on this foundation to explore evolving values and aspirations, with the goal of living more intentionally.
Yet even clients who are financially prepared may feel anxious or uncertain about what comes next. ReFirement addresses these concerns by blending financial planning with conversations that create space for safe, reflective exploration. Instead of viewing retirement as a retreat from productivity, clients are invited to see it as a launchpad for creativity, contribution, and personal growth. For many, this phase brings a complex emotional landscape – including grief, identity shifts, or even a lingering sense of disconnection – which can be difficult to process without thoughtful support.
To help clients move forward, advisors can introduce practical tools that invite personal reflection and visualization. These include growth mindset prompts, values exercises, and legacy planning templates designed to help clients clarify what matters most. For example, visual activities like the "Touchstone Poster" or a guided values-ranking worksheet can help clients reconnect with forgotten passions or explore new aspirations. Whether they're exploring mentorship opportunities, creative outlets, or philanthropic goals, many clients find surprising clarity simply by having the space to reflect. Importantly, advisors don't have to guide this process alone – resources from organizations such as the Financial Transitionist Institute (FTI), Money Quotient, and George Kinder's EVOKE Process offer structure to support more meaningful planning conversations. Kathleen also shares a checklist of open-ended prompts that can serve as a roadmmap to help clients envision what a "ReFired" retirement might look like.
Ultimately, the key point is that ReFirement offers a richer, more expansive vision for what retirement can be – not just a phase of rest, but a new opportunity for growth, contribution, and renewal. By helping clients align their financial strategies with their evolving values and aspirations, advisors can create space for deeper conversations and more rewarding outcomes. And in doing so, they don't just prepare clients for what's next; they empower them to step into it with clarity and confidence, and a renewed sense of purpose and joy!